She fell, she crashed, she broke, she cried, she crawled, she hurt, she surrendered and then…
she rose again.-Nausicaa Twila
Don’t Be Surprised When She No Longer Needs You, You Taught Her How To Be Alone
Do not be surprised when you are not the first person she calls when something bad or good happens. You should not be shocked when you aren’t the first person she calls when she wakes up in the morning. You taught her that you won’t show up when she needs you. You taught her how to count on someone else.
Do not be surprised when she does not miss you when you are gone. You taught her not to miss you. You made her feel that you never missed her. She never felt that her absence had an impact on you. She never felt that she had added any value to your life. You never showed her that you missed her. You never told her.
Do not be confused when she spends more time with her friends than you. Besides, you did teach her that you will not care about her as much as her friends do. You did not listen when she spoke and you did not remember what she told you.
In addition, you should not be surprised when she plans something without you. You taught her that you will always say no. You also taught her how to plan her future without you. You did not want to yourself in her shoes.
You should not be shocked when she ignores you. You have ignored this girl for months, even years. She has usually been the one that tried harder. She has often been the one to adjust her own schedule for you. She has always been the one compromising.
You should not be stunned when she starts drifting away. She begins to remember who she was before she fell in love with you. She begins to understand that she settles with you. She begins to understand what she really deserves. She begins to realize how much you take her for granted. She begins to realize that someone else can treat her much better.
Do not be surprised when she stops being attentive or caring. Do not be surprised when her tender words become sour and her burning passion turns cold. Do not be surprised when she looks at you and doesn’t feel a thing. You taught her how to stop loving you.
You should not be shocked when she leaves since you gave her no reason to stay. You did teach her how to stop loving you.